Singer-actress Jennifer Lopez wants to stay single in order to better focus on her 6-year old twins, Max and Emme. Max and Emme are her children with singer Marc Anthony whom she was married to for seven years.

Lopez insists that the twins are the most important people in her life and despite her friends constantly trying to set her up with men, she says that she's not up to entering into another romantic relationship.

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''I have gone from relationship to relationship but, at the end of the day, I am not ashamed of the path I have taken, or the lessons I have learned. 'Right now it feels good to just be on my own and have some 'I love Jennifer' time, which I haven't done a lot in my life," she shared.

The American Idol judge shared that she spends most of her time with herself and her children. According to Lopez, whoever enters her life as a romantic partner should be good enough for her and her twins.

Lopez shared that she does her utmost to make sure that her kids feel loved and, that motherhood is her top priority.

The singer, who has been married thrice, said she is taking her time before settling down again so as not to attract more "misery" in her life.

She said her gut instinct about men and relationships is pretty good, but admits that when she doesn't follow her gut, that is when she usually ends up in relationships with the wrong men.

''You make decisions for two reasons: out of fear or out of love, and when you make them out of fear they end in misery," she stated, adding that she simply does things based on what she feels is right for her.

Lopez's most recent romance was with her backup dancer Casper Smart, whom she broke up with last June after being together for two and a half years.