The many challenges that result to infidelity and divorce unintentionally creep in because people do not really intend to destroy their own marriages.

One of the most intimacy killers is not wearing a wedding band. Although, it may seem not to be a big deal, it is the first line of protection against adultery, according to David Willis of XXXChurch. The first thing that people see about a person and make assumptions that the person is "available" depends on the absence and presence of a ring.

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The next is digital distraction. Most people give more attention to their tablets or smartphones than to their husband/wife though it is proven that speaking to your spouse is way better than texting with someone else or playing mobile games.

Another intimacy killer is parenting, as couples tend to be busy minding their kids, which is one of the most important duties for them, but can also destroy marriage if they do not have the same method in parenting.

Psych Central said that the next is graphic romance novels or porn, as people intend to view these as harmless and that they can add some spice in the bedroom, but the truth is that these things are affecting real intimacy in a bad way. It is not enough to be physically monogamous, mental monogamy is also important.

Next is flirting, which is very damaging, because marriage is harmed when couples stop flirting with their partners and begin doing it with somebody else.

The best start in relationships is to give your best. People always give their best when they start on something, then eventually goes lousy, just like a promo period. Finally, negative friendships can be in a way destroying a good marriage. It is said that one needs to make sure to hang out with people who will strengthen ones character and will not compromise someone.

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